Fuck Buddies

Is it possible for two people to have regular or even occasional sex without one or both of them getting "caught up" as MzB likes to put it?

Dara thinks not. She says, "Sex is different for women, it is not some random thing that just happens." She then went on to say "Any of the women you are sleeping with would most likely say yes if you told them you wanted to get serious with them."

I disagree with her on two fronts...

- It is not just women, both men and women get 'caught up' when you are intimate with someone regularly you do begin to care for them.

- While I have no doubt that Carolyn cares for me, and cares for me deeply, I have no delusions that she would give up her long term relationship with Jimmy for me. Just as I would not give up Dara for her. As she said the other day "But you are in love with another woman" and I responded "And you are in love with another man."